Trying to get my milk to dry up by wrapping chest in ace bandage.?

I have read that using a cabbage leaf will help. My wife works at a hospital and they send up cabbage leafs to many of the new moms who do not want or want to stop breast feeding. When she was breast feeding I ask the same thing her mother told me (can't4it). I thought she said some kind of rub on drug I even ask the people at the pharmacy they sort of looked at me funny and suggest what I said above. She was bullheaded and never did but has said she seen it work on others. I know it can become rather painful almost like when a guy gets hit in the right spot. I can only say sorry for how you are feeling and congratulation with the baby.